The most important reason, the termination of love - is unbelief in yourself, low self-esteem. Many people in my heart believe that love them, in general, not for anything.
If a person does not believe in himself, his relationships with others will not be durable. He will be forced to explain a good attitude to her by another, or inexperience and naiveté of a partner or, for example, self-serving interest. This implies the lack of confidence in the reliability of relations in their ability to survive the bar of life failures and destructive marital jealousy. In addition, love, enhancing it always has to overcome the difficulties, the struggle. And often it's hard struggle. But to win, one must believe in the possibility of victory. He who goes into battle, convinced that he has no chance, is doomed to failure.
Naturally, there can be simple tips on how to maintain a sense of love. And yet, if a person is looking in the mirror, he sees it even if not very beautiful, but is oriented to the contact person of the same cute, and have to contact a person will see it and those with whom he communicates. Misunderstanding between the spouses often leads them to divorce.
Divorce for the husband means the deterioration of the prospects for its promotion by social disapproval. Women, despite their activity in the divorce, this does not apply. The conventional wisdom is that women are more emotional. And this is true, if we bear in mind the mobility of emotions. It could easily burst into tears, but the transition from the sincere tears of a totally sincere laughter - this is also a woman. But men have more power of emotional experience, their emotions stronger. And hence, the stress caused by rupture of relations, it is stronger even ceteris paribus. But here, as we have seen, other conditions in its favor. All this taken together makes the gap for young men, a dramatic event.
This is confirmed by sociological studies: less than a third of divorces initiated by men in urban areas, respectively, over two thirds (68%) of divorces initiated by wives, but 40% of divorces committed spouses who have lived less than 3 years, and the activity of women in divorces with age has been steadily declining.