This, naturally, does not mean that if a person does not like anybody or nobody likes, he will definitely become ill. The results presented are statistical in nature, except, of course, possible. There are people who never let anyone not love and they, too, no one in particular does not like, and they are thus totally doing not suffer. Yet for most people, love is needed - as a love for them and their own love for another man.
Love, of course, an inherent risk. And the more we love, the greater the risk. We are in danger, such as losing a loved one. A death of a loved person is often more frightening than death itself. We run the risk that we cease to love. We ourselves can fall out of love, and who knows better than it than when you yourself any more. Strictly speaking, to avoid the risk can be only one way - do not fall in love at all.
Moreover, it has become customary, and for the view that love can never lasted long, that transience is peculiar as it were, the very nature of love. Such a belief leads to tragic consequences: lost faith in the possibility of a long love, not believing what he loves, the man slowly and in fact ceases to love.
However, evidence of the principal short time there is no love. On the contrary, there are times (though not as many as we would like) a couple who managed to keep the love for a long time - hence, it is possible in principle.
Long-term love requires a person of high personal development. To fall in love with movie star does not need any great intelligence or soul. Actor (or rather its image) - Superman, he has little or no flaws. But love of the living, sinful and weak human being - it is art that not everyone owns.
From adolescence are associated the highest sense, the purest impulses. By this age are usually related to love and peak experiences.
For all other age groups would be assigned as second grade. As a result, most people find themselves in a situation where the peak of life long gone, but the future does not bode particularly bright.
Most people love more than once, but several.