But if meetings become regular, if the marriage is, there are serious problems. A man comes after a busy day home; he is tired and wants to relax. But instead, he expects the role - and he should play it. It was then that people and begins to tire of the role. This fatigue often takes the form of the desire to have a rest from each other, which could be the beginning and end of a love affair.
Tired of each other is so common that many even consider it inevitable, offering to apply some measures, for example, be sure to spend holidays alone, "rest" from each other.
But is communication between loved ones, inevitably leads to mutual exhaustion? Almost all people have the experience with a man who never get tired of it - is a conversation in his childhood with his mother. Do we want a break from her, perhaps dreaming that my mother had gone for a month and gave us another aunt? On the contrary, we would like it to be with us always and very upset when she left, even briefly.
The disappearance of love not only promotes fatigue and irritation, and boredom. Complain that they know everything, all the familiar sense of novelty is gone, and it became boring.
The fact is that even in such intimate relationships, like love, we often like to play a certain defined roles. Our relationship has become a kind of playing by the rules. Romantic relationships dictate to us or that type of behavior.
 Hardly, for example, we will succeed if we require from a partner the impossible: become more beautiful, become wiser, become taller ... Requirements must be not only specific but also real, and to formulate them better so as not to offend the partner and as close as possible to fulfill his wish. Practice shows that the habits and adults are served quite correct, but not hurriedly, but after a long diplomatic work. Good, decent man - one who is well received, who knows how to adjust their behavior, knows how to find the optimal way to their emotions can get out of the most difficult situations, without causing anyone pain.